I still have not come to terms that you are no more. I know that I have to tell myself the honest truth at some point. We were more than friends and brothers. We have lots of names we call ourselves from the first day we met in FUTO. I cannot find the words.... Our journey together started in 1999 in FUTO. We were in the same department (EEE) and also lived in the same compound (Ojiji Villa, Ihiagwa)for 4 years. We bonded in no time as we both had the same background and upbringing. We shared similar views, secrets and had aspirations. We had our fair share of misunderstandings and loads of good times together. You always watched my back and was interested in things that concerned me. I remember all your yabs while dating my wife (then girlfriend) in school. I always called you for advice when I had problems and the good thing was that you always gave me your listening ears and warm advice not hiding the truth no matter how bitter but will still yab me much later. Our snoring competition was crazy (no one dared sleep in the same room with both of us).You are my brother. I will truly miss you. Our IT days in Lagos with Obinna and Chibuzor (CBZ) was hilarious. After school, we were in Lagos planning and deciding what our lives would be and supporting each other financially. Then came NYSC with Obinna, CJ, Myself and our new friend (Horror) we met. Good times especially when Horror tried fixing us with jobs in Equitorial Guinea. That was the point I got this weird name (Lagwanne Bioko Bongo Jones Otubone). We had a good laugh. Then moving on with our lives, we got separated based on our different hustles. You moved to Aberdeen which was a great move. Interestingly, you sold your car to me (Volvo S70) - another long story. In all my visits to the UK, I always had to stop at Aberdeen to spend at least a night with you. You helped me buy the engagement ring I gave my wife. You attended my wedding which I was deeply honoured. During my wife's masters program in Glasgow, you always found time to visit her. You are a big part of my family. I was so excited when you told me you found your wife and your wedding was great. Your son's arrival was amazing. A week before your sleep, I had this push to call you but I shrugged it aside as I was busy with my new job and then said I would speak with you later. Unfortunately, I do not have that opportunity anymore. I am deeply comforted of the fact that your life had a new meaning in Christ. You always talked to me about turning a new page, we shared testimonies and God's goodness in our lives. At a point, I told our friends back in Lagos that you are now a pastor and my wife was also very happy the way your life turned. "Sandy Baabyy" like you always call my wife is still in disbelief just like myself that you are no more. I love you like a brother and you will be truly missed. Continue to sleep in the Lord. Goodnight my brother, friend and confidant. I believe I have an angel now....... Ikenna (Sicco), Sandra and Muna Otubelu